Make hard choices, together.

When there's no easy answer, HardChoice helps couples talk it through and decide, without fighting.

Built from 19 years of marriage decisions, tested in real debates, not theory.

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"We keep going in circles."

"We both care — just about different things."

"Every option has downsides."

"We don't want to resent each other later."

HardChoice was built for moments like these.

Why we built this

Our 19th wedding anniversary is coming up.
We've learned that the hardest decisions aren't about logic, they're about fear, tradeoffs, and what you might lose.
HardChoice helps us get on the same side of the table again… and then decide.

Not therapy. Not advice. Just a tool to help two people get unstuck.

How it works

1

Name the choice

"What are we deciding?"

2

Answer privately

"What matters to me. What worries me."

3

Look together

"See where we agree. See what's hard."

4

Choose with eyes open

"And check in later to see how it's going."

No math. No arguing. Just clarity.

Private first

You answer honestly before talking it out.

Red flags aren't ignored

Serious worries can't be buried by 'logic'.

Not another daily app

Use it only when life gets hard.

Want early access?

We're opening this slowly to a small group of couples.

Built by a real couple

  • • 19 years married
  • • Countless tough calls
  • • Private by default

This is private by default.
No social feeds. No public sharing.
Your answers stay between the two of you.